Many friends question that girls' marriage is their personal matter and their parents should not interfere in it, but the problem is that girls have only one option to get a boy who matches their standards or is closer to their ideals. There is a chance and other times they get a relationship on the basis of what is and as is and they have to accept it all the time because the first preference of men for marriage is virgin and young girl.
Most of the girls in our society are not economically independent and if their marriage is not successful for any reason, they come back to their parents. And it is due to the economic and social strength of the family and the attention and love given to the girl by them, while in the case of court marriage the girl is deprived of all these things and in the case of impotence, sometimes the doors of her house are closed on her. They are also closed, that is, by court marriage, the girl plays a gamble, in which the ratio of failure is more than success, and in marriage with the will of the parents, they are with you in all kinds of situations, and the ratio of failure is also less.
If so, the bottom line is that the world does not end with one person, you do not love that person, but the quality you want in him, which can be found in anyone else in the world, so any standard relationship is just Don't reject it because your parents have found it for you because one party in your marriage is them and the other is the mother. Make him your friend, tell him your likes and dislikes, and when he asks you for your choice, exercise your shari'a right and express your opinion openly and start your new life with the confidence that your partner The search is done by your parents but the acceptance certificate is given by you
good luck
Noman Sultan
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